If a spouse changes their mind after the First Motion in a mutual consent divorce, the Family Court cannot legally grant a mutual divorce decree. Indian family law requires both husband and wife to consent freely up to the Second Motion. However, the spouse who backs out must return any settlement money or stridhan received. The other spouse can file a court application to recover all funds, revive past criminal cases, or immediately file a contested divorce case on grounds of mental cruelty.
UNDERSTANDING THE MUTUAL DIVORCE PROCESS UNDER INDIAN LAW
Mutual consent divorce under Section 13B of the Hindu Marriage Act is designed to be the quickest, least hostile way to end a difficult marriage. The law requires two steps:
Step 1: The First Motion, where both partners sign a joint petition and record their statements before the Family Court judge.
Step 2: The Second Motion, which takes place after a cooling-off period, where both partners confirm that they still want the divorce.
A major problem arises when one partner takes part in the First Motion, takes their agreed alimony money, and then refuses to attend or sign the Second Motion.
CAN THE COURT FORCE YOUR SPOUSE TO GIVE A DIVORCE?
The answer is no. Under Indian matrimonial law, consent must be willing and present right up to the minute the final divorce order is passed.
If your partner tells the judge that they have changed their mind, the court cannot force them to agree. The judge must dismiss the mutual consent divorce petition. No court in India has the power to force someone into a divorce by mutual agreement if they refuse.
THREE CRUCIAL ACTIONS TO TAKE IF YOUR SPOUSE BACKS OUT
If you find yourself stuck because your spouse refuses to sign the Second Motion, take these legal steps immediately:
- File for Immediate Return of Your Money and Assets:
If you handed over demand drafts, maintenance funds, or family jewelry during the First Motion, your spouse cannot keep them. Your legal counsel can file a recovery application before the Family Court to force the return of every rupee paid under the failed agreement.
- Reopen All Settled Police and Court Complaints:
Most settlements are agreed upon on the condition that ongoing police complaints will be closed. This includes dowry harassment complaints under Section 85 BNS (formerly Section 498A IPC) or High Court quashing petitions under Section 528 BNSS (formerly Section 482 CrPC). If your partner breaks the agreement, those cases can be reopened and pursued.
- File for a Contested Divorce on Grounds of Cruelty:
If mutual agreement is no longer possible, you can file a contested divorce petition. The fact that your spouse signed the agreement, took benefits, and then backed out without justification serves as clear evidence of mental cruelty in court.
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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS (FAQ)
What should I do if my spouse takes the settlement money at First Motion and disappears?
Immediately file an application before the Family Court for restitution of funds and issue a legal notice demanding the immediate return of money and assets.
Can I stop my spouse from keeping the stridhan or alimony draft?
Yes. Because the agreement was contingent on the granting of the final divorce decree at the Second Motion, failure to complete the Second Motion makes the retention of funds unlawful.
Can the six-month cooling-off period be waived to prevent a spouse from changing their mind?
Yes. If all disputes regarding alimony, custody, and stridhan are settled, an application can be filed to waive the statutory cooling-off period so the Second Motion can be completed expeditiously.
What happens to my criminal case under Section 85 BNS if mutual divorce fails?
If a criminal case was stayed or agreed to be settled conditionally, you can inform the court that the compromise failed and request the continuation of trial proceedings.
Which court handles mutual consent divorce in Delhi?
The Family Court having territorial jurisdiction over the place where the marriage was solemnized, where the couple last resided together, or where the wife currently resides has jurisdiction.
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